Month: June 2018

Quiet & Cool; The Secret to Self-Motivation

self consciousSelf-motivation is not always easy to achieve, especially when you lack confidence and prefer to not be seen at the gym working out when you are not in the best of shape. Others are very self-confident and feel that they do not need to go to the gym. In both cases, they are often the ones who would benefit most from the overall gym experience. They are the ones who would achieve more if they had someone encouraging them to work harder at reaching their goals. The other solution is to have a place that is quiet and cool. It can also be the secret to self-motivation for those who may struggle to get up and exercising.

Exercising at the Gym

working out at the gym

Gyms are designed to be places where people can go if they want to improve their overall health. However, for overweight people, it can seem like the scariest place on earth since they know they are out of shape. It can be daunting for someone who is 200 pounds to be surrounded by people who are buff and in good shape. It can make them feel self-conscious. It can make them want to hide in the bathroom rather than get out there and show their imperfections. What they may not realize is that even those who are in perfect shape now had to start at one point. They may not have been overweight, but they may have had other health issues that made it important to get into better shape. No one simply goes to the gym and starts a routine without feeling some of the burn in their muscles.

 

Gaining Motivation

home workoutsWith the risk of feeling self-conscious at the gym, many overweight or out of shape people tend to try and exercise at home. This can be a great way to get into shape well enough that you can go to the gym and feel more comfortable in your own skin while you are there. Start with home aerobics or purchase a cheep weight set to get started. From there, another motivation will be ensuring that you have a place that is comfortable for you to workout in. For this, you may want exercise mats, your baggiest clothes, and a cold air conditioner to ensure that no matter what you are doing, you are comfortable while doing it. It will make the routines more tolerable so that you are more likely to stick with it.

Get on Your Feet

Most people who need to start working out the most are the ones who avoid it because they feel as though others will laugh or point fingers at them. If you are not happy in your own skin or you realize that you could be a “better you” than you are today; you have to decide to make the change. You have to decide that you want to change. Whether you start out at the gym or start with something easier at home; the key is to get on your feet and feel comfortable while you are doing it. Self-motivation starts and ends with your desire to become healthier. Having a comfortable place to do it in, will help you stay motivated well enough that you can work up to more. Then, when you do attend a gym; you will realize that everyone there is simply happy that you have chosen to love your body enough to get out there.

Happy Baby Happy Life

happy babyBeing a parent is always stressful; especially when your bundle is a newborn or a toddler. We all tend to love the smiles, wish for the laughter, and stress over the times when they are fussy. However, part of being a baby is fussing. As a baby, it is because it is their only communication option. As a toddler, it is often because they feel stressed about the way the world works. No matter what is causing your child to be fussy, it can have a negative impact on you as well. Therefore, we say, “Happy baby happy life” and encourage you to do all you can to make it happen.

Unhappy Baby

fussy babyBabies cry for many reasons. Sometimes it is because they do not feel well. Other times, it is because they want cuddles. It may be they want food, a new diaper, or a change in scenery. There are certain things you will know to check for immediately if your infant starts fussing, but true understanding may never be achieved.  This will not stop you from feeling that as a parent, you have to learn what your baby needs at that moment. In some ways, it is also factual. Otherwise, the crying may continue, which will eventually lead to massive amounts of stress on you.

Unhappy Parents

midnight snackingIt has been proven that as adults, we deal with stress in unexpected ways. Some of us may get angry easily and others simply grab the nearest bag of potato chips. As a general rule, parents tend to lean more toward the later. Often, it is food that becomes our comfort when the baby starts stressing. We may eat when they eat because it reminds us of food. We may enjoy unhealthy midnight snacks because we are up anyway. Then, the one thing most parents forget is, not only are they snacking a lot, but they are failing to exercise with their newly found parenthood. Before long, this becomes extra pounds that make you very unhealthy. Isn’t it time to change the routines?

Making a Change for Happiness

Babies are going to fuss. Toddlers are going to throw tantrums. It is a simple fact that parents have to deal with. Instead of letting it get the best of you, make a change. Rest when your child does is the most basic. A well-rested mom or dad is always going to handle stress better than someone who isn’t resting properly. Beyond that, your baby should have a great place to rest as well. A good mattress is key, especially one that is suited for Pack n Play cribs. They provide the firmness that infants and toddlers need and allow you to keep the baby by your side at all times, so that you can rest easier. Another idea is to trade off with your partner to give yourself some much-needed rest during the toughest days. You should also keep in mind that these days will soon pass and then you will miss those midnight cuddles with your little bundle.